Coaches and service providers…..There’s a point where you have to get past the fear and not wanting to do what you need to do to succeed.
There are non-negotiable things that people seem to want to ignore and yet still “hope” they will succeed. This is not reality.
And there is no hope in business. There is action and results.
If you have a business you need to sell to people. You need to get past that feeling that selling is bad. And the people that sell are bad. Or that they’re slimy.
If you are in business then you are going to have people approach you to sell to you. That’s life. You gotta stop complaining about this. It’s just fear. Of so many things.
Fear of being seen
Fear of not being good enough
Fear of not being able to deliver
Fear of every single blooming thing that you can possibly think of.
If you have a business, then you have to sell. If you have a business, then you have to have a higher level of being oversensitive when other people approach you to sell to you. These are not bad people. These are people that are running a business!
And then we get into the jealousy and envy part. And the FOMO. That’s all a big black hole that is pulling you away from doing the work!
It’s just giving you an excuse to have yet another cup of coffee and futz around filling your days and not moving the needle.
And then kicking into all the guilt feelings of not getting where you need to go.
Focus on you! Focus on what you can do to help people. Focus on making offers. Because as I said, you are a business! If you are not making offers, and you are not selling to people, then you are not a business. You are a hobby.
And one of my missions is to help people get out of this hobby attitude about their business.
Start taking yourself seriously! And seriously, the Complaining has to stop. That is just damaging you.
And cobbling together a strategy from freebies you’ve found from all over the Internet, is also damaging you. It is not taking it seriously. And it is wasting your time.
And that is the last thing you wanna do is waste your time.
Fix this. Do what it takes to get the help you need to fix this.
Life can take a turn at any time and then, it might be too late.